Read This If You Feel Like Nothing You Have Or Do Ever Feels Quite...

If you feel as though nothing you have or do is ever quite enough, it’s not because everyone is superseding you in life. It’s not because you...

The Harsh Truth About Healing That They Will Never Tell You In Therapy

What they don’t tell you about healing is that it isn’t peaceful. What they don’t tell you is that healing is not a linear progression in which...

How To Not Let Perfectionism Ruin Your Art

I’ve started painting again. I used to do oil painting and now I’m learning watercolors. I’ve never really used them before so I’m a complete beginner....

We All Deserve Redemption | Thought Catalog

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Nobody Is Forcing You To Hold Onto Your Baggage But You

Did you know that if baby elephants are chained to a tree when they are young, they will remain by the tree when they are full...

Why Some People Never Outgrow Their Childish Behaviors And End Up Completely Unhappy In...

Something that you don’t learn about life until it’s often too late is that growth is not inevitable, it’s optional. We often grow up assuming that one...

Don’t Let The Fear Of Failure Stop You From Trying

Society puts so much emphasis on success that it prevents many of us from going after our dreams – from going after what makes us happy,...

2019 Is The Year Of Shedding, 2020 Is The Year Of Becoming

This is the year that you let go. Of the old clothes, the debts, the weight, the half-assed relationships, the opinions of people who aren’t an active...

How To Think You’re Hot, Even If No One Else Does

When I was 9 years old I understood that being fat was wrong. I wrote in my journal that year that my goal was to “lose...

This Is The Dark Truth About Highly Ambitious People That Nobody Wants To Admit

The truth about highly ambitious people is that they have a hunger in them that nothing can quite fill. The truth is that they are driven beyond...

You Cannot Save Everyone, Nor Are You Meant To

The truth about wounded healers is that the person they most want to save is really just themselves. The truth about every healer is that they were,...

Six Things To Remember When It’s Time To Actually Move On

One, he’s gone. He’s not coming back. He is now a wind passing to your window, forcing you to remember the smell of his breath and the...

The Worst Parts About Seeing The World In Black And White

When you see the world in black and white, your opinion changes by the hour. You switch between loving certain humans and hating them. When someone hurts...

If You Keep Procrastinating, You’ll Never Be Happy, Fulfilled, Or Successful 

Stop looking for signs you should send the first text or move across the country or apply for a new position. If you’re looking for signs...

I Feel Better Since I’ve Stopped Caring 

I’ve stopped caring about the way my actions make me look. I have a soft heart. I have strong morals. I’m not going to screw over...

What Happens When Your Anxiety Tethers You To The House

When your anxiety keeps you tethered to the house, you worry you’re missing out on something. You worry you’re wasting away your youth. You worry you’re...

I Can’t Always Be The Positive, Inspirational Girl

It’s easy for me to tell other people everything is going to be okay. It’s easy for me to encourage others to keep thinking positive. But...

You’re Not Going To Make It Unless You Believe In Yourself 

You’re not going to make it unless you put in the effort — and you’re not going to put in the effort if you keep doubting...

As Soon As You Master Where You Are, It’s Time To Move Onto The...

You spend so much time working to find your footing in the phase of life you’re in. You spend so much time trying to master the...

You Aren’t A Failure | Thought Catalog

You aren’t a screwup. You are’t as bad as the little voice in the back of your head warns you. You have to stop thinking of yourself...

31 One-Sentence Reminders For When You Are Feeling Like You’re Not Quite Enough

1. You will never be good enough for yourself when your goal is to be good enough for someone else. 2. Those who have no intention of...

9 Things My Younger Self Would Be Surprised To Learn About Me

1. How little I care about certain family and friends. I’ve cut so many people out of my world who used to be close to me....

Read This If You Are Afraid Of Healing

Healing is ugly. Healing is painful. There’s no other way to put it. Healing means confronting a heartbreak, head on, and feeling the pain and the...

You Aren’t Going To Grow Unless You Take Risks

You aren’t going to grow unless you step outside of your comfort zone. You have to give up the fear of embarrassment, because all of the...

Stop Rushing The Timing Of Your Life, You Do Not Have To Accomplish Everything...

It is important to set deadlines for your dreams. It’s not just important, it’s crucial. It’s the difference between ideas and goals, hopes and plans. You have to...

The More You Love Yourself, The Less Fucks You’ll Give

When you’re insecure, you’re always looking for validation from a crush or your friends or complete strangers on the internet. You aren’t sure whether you look...

Nothing At All Needs To Be Perfect, Especially You

If you’re in the middle of overthinking and your thoughts are exhausting you think about this – nothing at all needs to be perfect. Your thoughts of...

11 Ways To Be Productive When You’re Sick (Or Too Lazy To Move Around)

When you’re a workaholic, one of the most frustrating things about being sick is how much time you’re wasting. If you don’t want to feel like...

Your Worst Moments Will Inspire Your Biggest Changes

Sometimes, your worst moments put your priorities into perspective. Sometimes, your worst moments make you realize you need to make a change. Sometimes, your worst moments...

I’m Trying (And Failing) To Become The Best Version Of Myself

I’m actively trying to become the best version of myself but there are days when it feels like I’m only pretending I’ve made progress. There are...

The Happiest Girls Are The Ones Who Aren’t Treating Life Like A Competition

You might have a habit of falling for the wrong boys. You might have spent years in a toxic relationship. You might have assumed you would...

How To Love Yourself By An Imperfect Person Who Is Actually (Sometimes) Doing It!

It seems like such a silly thing to say that I’ve struggled for a long time to accept myself. It’s almost too obvious. I think the...

Don’t You Dare Give Up On Yourself

I know you’re frustrated. I know you’re having a hard time believing things are going to get better. I know you want the pain to stop,...

You Aren’t Going To Get Better Unless You Put In The Effort

You aren’t going to get better by following the same routine day after day, by refusing to make changes, by remaining in your comfort zone. You aren’t...

Loving Yourself Doesn’t Mean You Think You’re Perfect

Loving yourself doesn’t mean you’re happy with every single aspect of your face, body, and personality. It doesn’t mean you are immune to self-consciousness and insecurity....

Maybe I’ll Love Myself Anyway

Today I looked at myself in the mirror, which usually wouldn’t be noteworthy. Because, well, I won’t lie, I look at myself in the mirror all...

I Am Slowly Learning Your Comfort Zone Can Suffocate You

I am slowly learning you can’t remain in the same space forever. In order to grow, you have to stretch your limits. You have to take...

55 Harsh Truths You Have To Accept, No Matter How Shitty They Seem

Here are a few harsh truths about the real world brought to you from Ask Reddit.  1. No matter how much anyone likes you or loves you,...

When Your Hard Work Hasn’t Been Paying Off

When you take two steps back, you might feel like a failure. You might feel like you’ve let yourself down. You might feel embarrassed about your...

44 Tips That Socially Awkward 20-Somethings Should Use To Make More Friends

If you’re socially awkward, here are a few tips on how to feel more comfortable in conversations from Ask Reddit.  1. Many people find complaining and pointing...

When You Need To See A Therapist (But Still Aren’t Seeing A Therapist) 

When you need to see a therapist, you say the words to yourself all the time. You cry your eyes out in the bathroom and think...

This Is How You Start To Let Go, Even If You Don’t Feel Like...

You cannot force yourself to let go, no matter how much you know you want to. You cannot force something out of your brain space, no matter...

Girls, You’re Allowed To Be Angry 

Stop worrying about coming across as a bitch. You’re not a bitch for speaking your mind. You’re not a bitch for expecting respect. You’re not a...

33 Tips For Night Owls Who Want To Wake Up Earlier

If you’re sick of sleeping until noon, here are some tips from Ask Reddit on how to wake up earlier. 1. Have something you look forward to...

A Short List Of Things I Lost When I Wasn’t Paying Attention

Any number of circumstances can make us lose sight of things which are important, or lose parts of ourselves without even realizing, not until it’s too...

I Invited Complete Strangers Over For Dinner And This Is What Happened

Back in November of 2018, I did a project called ’50 acts of kindness.’ From baking cookies for all my neighbors to handing out roses on...

Seeing The Best In People Can Backfire On You

Seeing the best in people can backfire on you. It can encourage you to give out second chances to people who never even deserved a first....

50 Inspirational Reminders You Need To Soothe Your Soft Heart 

Here are a few tiny, beautiful reminders from Ask Reddit. 1. Time will pass whether you do nothing or you do something, so you might as well...

Sometimes, You Have To Ask For What You Deserve

Some people aren’t going to treat you the way you deserve until you stand up for yourself, speak your mind, and demand better treatment. Is that fair?...

This Is What It Means To Glow Up, Because It’s Not About Proving The...

Your glow up might not be something others can see. It might not come across as a shift on the surface. In a world of revenge bodies...

30 Important Reminders You Probably Need To Hear Right Now

Answers found on Ask Reddit 1. Cancel that one subscription you signed up for free before it charges you. 2. We judge others by their actions and ourselves...

You Can Fight With Everything You Have, But What Isn’t Right For You Will...

There is nothing that you can do to win someone, or something, that is not meant to be yours. You can fight with everything you have. You...

A Spotify Playlist For When Everything Feels Too Much

1. Nights – Frank Ocean For when you’re spinning out about the nonsense of the world and you just need to vibe and fantasize about what it’d be...

In Honor Of Mother’s Day, 50 Daughters Share The Best Advice Their Moms Ever...

This thread from Ask Reddit should inspire you to thank your mom this Mother’s Day! 1. “You will never have to live this day again.” She said...

19 Reassuring Things To Remind Yourself Every Day

You’ve made it to another day and maybe this day will be your best yet. Maybe this day will be your hardest yet. Or maybe it...

44 Shitty Pieces Of Advice You Should NEVER Follow

Ask Reddit is here to remind you to stop following these horrible pieces of advice. 1. “Find a partner who loves you for who you are.” Fuck...

This Is Your 30 Day Bravery Guide: Challenge Yourself To Live Loudly, Boldly, And...

You can’t live the life you owe yourself without living it loudly, boldly, and without apology. We all have the power to do so, but we...

Introverts, Here Are 40 Jobs That Don’t Involve Too Much Social Interaction

If you’re an introvert, here are some job suggestions from Ask Reddit. 1. I used to work at a cactus nursery and it was an introvert dream....

Loving Yourself Doesn’t Mean Resisting Change

Loving yourself doesn’t mean pretending you are perfect. Loving yourself doesn’t mean denying you have flaws. Loving yourself doesn’t mean refusing to work on yourself. In fact, taking active...

35 Bad Habits That Scream ‘I’m Not A Good Person’

Answers found on Ask Reddit 1. Not taking personal responsibility for your actions. 2. Purposefully withholding important information from someone for your own self-preservation or selfish reasons. 3. Someone...

9 Lessons I Learned This Year That Made Me Feel Better About Life

1. Life is just a series of the same experiences over and over. When I first moved to DC after college, I was always jealous of...

When You’re The Girl Who Overthinks

When you’re the girl who overthinks, everything becomes more complex. You analyze every little detail — every text, every glance, every change in demeanor. Like a...

50 Pieces Of Advice That Sound Like Total Bullshit That Are Actually Pretty Useful

These cliche pieces of advice from Ask Reddit are more helpful than they sound. 1. Don’t suffer future pain. In other words, worrying about all the stuff...

Making Yourself A Priority Makes You Look Like An Asshole 

You’re told to love yourself. You’re encouraged to put yourself first. You’re promised it’s not selfish to do what’s best for your own mental health. But, for...

50 Toxic Things Every Girl Should Stop Romanticizing About Love, Life, And Relationships

If you want to live a happy, fulfilled life, stop romanticizing these toxic behaviors mentioned on Ask Reddit.  1. First time sex. Sometimes it doesn’t go well,...

Actually, You Can’t Always Make Time For What’s Most Important To You

There’s a difference between someone treating you worse than you deserve and someone genuinely lacking enough time to spend with you. No, you shouldn’t waste your time...

Give Yourself Time To Sit In Silence

When was the last time you sat down in the discomfort of your silence? When was the last time you fell in love with your spirit?...

Maybe Our Life Purpose Is To Live Out Every Moment

I believe that in every person’s life, one of the biggest internal battles waged in each of us is over the questions: What am I doing...

Prove To The Universe That You’re Ready To Go All In, And See How...

It is not enough just to ask. It is not enough just to visualize the outcome, to imagine your next level life, to know with complete clarity...

Read This When You Can’t Decide Between What Your Heart Wants And What Your...

From the time you’re little, everyone offers you advice on how to navigate your mind and heart. They’ll tell you to follow your gut, trust your...

I’m Slowly Learning What It Means To ‘Be The Bigger Person’ 

I’m slowly learning being the bigger person is not about offering unlimited forgiveness, regardless of the offense. It’s not about allowing someone to get away with hurting...

Maybe Right Now Your Journey Isn’t About Love

Maybe right now, your journey isn’t about love. Maybe right now, your journey is about being alone. Maybe this is the season you are being challenged —...

Healing Yourself Is The Most Uncomfortable, Disruptive, Important Thing You Will Ever Do

Healing your mind is not the same thing as healing your body. When you’re wounded, you often go through a progressive,  linear repair. You get better,...

Self-Love Is The Best Form Of Healing

Self-love is the best remedy. It’s the best form of healing. Self-love helps you move on with ease when you truly look back on certain experiences...

Why It’s Hard To Love Yourself If You’re An Empath

Empathy is an interesting gift to have. Being an empath means you are highly sensitive and emotional and can sometimes confuse others’ emotions as your own. Sure,...

Another Person Is Not A Salve To Your Wounds, So Stop Relying On Others...

You probably already know that another person can complete you. There is nobody that can fit into the god and self and love-sized gaps within you....

Every Useful Thing My Therapist Has Ever Told Me

1.    It’s okay to disappoint your parents. It’s not okay to disappoint yourself. 2.    Don’t believe everything you read in self-help books. They’re simply guidelines, not the map to...

Finding Love In God’s Roadblocks

Heartbreak. Rejection. Failure. All these determinants at the moment don’t feel like blessings in disguise but that’s exactly what they are. Learning to trust God’s plan when...

It May Take A While But What’s Meant For You Will Always Find Its...

It may take months or years but what’s meant for you will always find its way to you. It may take a lot of patience, a lot...

40 Little Things That Make Life And Love Totally Worth It

1. The sound of the door closing when your husband/wife/partner comes home from work. 2. Laundry from your family members. 3. Goodbye kisses. 4. Hello kisses. 5. Good morning kisses. 6....

For All The 20-Something Girls Who Feel Like Screwups

Apparently, I have been doing my twenties all wrong. Apparently, I’m supposed to raise my standards in my twenties. I’m not supposed to fall for anyone and...

This Is What I Want You To Remember

I am pretty sure that my name is always written all over your body like notes. A day won’t pass that I am not in your...

I Keep My Expectations Low

I keep my expectations low to avoid disappointment. I hate getting excited about seeing someone, dating someone, spending forever alongside someone — and then having my...

I Care Too Much About Others And Too Little About Myself 

I care too much about others. I put myself at the bottom of my priority list so I can make sure everyone else is okay. When...

I Love My Body, But I Still Struggle With Wanting To Be Perfect

It’s not uncommon for my thoughts throughout the day to range from “you’re perfect just as you are” to “ugh, you’re not good enough.” If that...

You Don’t Need The Fab Five To ‘Queer Eye’ Yourself

Queer Eye has officially returned to Netflix, though I probably don’t have to tell you—if you’re anything like me, you probably cried your way through the...

A Reminder To Always Take Care Of Yourself

No one can argue the importance of self-care. It is everywhere-from Facebook memes to Buzzfeed shopping lists to TV shows chanting “treat yaself.” And, it IS...

With All Of Me, I Hope You Have Hope

With all of me, I hope you move forward with hope. I hope you find hope inside your heart, because it is there no matter what you...

20 30-Year-Olds Reveal Their Biggest Regrets About Their 20s

Answers found on Ask Reddit 1. “Spending too much time and energy on a relationship I knew was doomed to fail and then spending too much time...

Forgive Yourself For Struggling With An Unclear Mind

Lately, more than half of the time, her mind is half functioning to its fullest degree. Her thoughts mostly consist of, “Why does my brain feel...

Forgive Yourself For All The Times You Loved The Wrong People

You are enough. You have always been. You may have fallen for a few wrong hearts that made you feel like you weren’t. You may have...

50 Delicious (Healthy) Foods To Snack On Instead Of Devouring A Full Bag Of...

Ask Reddit has some healthy food suggestions to replace your chips and ice cream. 1. Plain popcorn. A cup of air-popped popcorn only has 31 calories, and...

When You Find Your Forever Person, You Strive To Become The Best Version Of...

When you find your forever person, you want to work on your flaws, break your bad habits, learn to take better care of your mind and...

Dear Heart, I’m Sorry For Not Taking Good Care Of You

I’m sorry for not loving you enough. I’m sorry for always putting you through hell expecting you to be happy and calm. I’m sorry for always...

Here’s To The Day You Start Living

I need you to promise me one thing. Actually, no. I need you to promise yourself one thing. Promise yourself that with every single cell that...

Authenticity And Laziness Are Related And The Reason May Surprise You

“You’re just like you are on Instagram.”⁣⁣I did a book launch party in LA the other day and I received that wonderful compliment. Yeah, I strive...

There And Back Again: Why I Gave Up Alcohol At 22

Trigger warning: alcohol and drug abuse Five years ago, when I was 22, I decided to stop drinking. Considering my history, the decision happened after a rather...

How To Write A Personal Mission, Because Your Vision Will Become Your Reality

When it comes to building the life you want to live, most people try to design it backwards. Most people begin with what habits and routines they...

Life Will Be Good To You Soon, I Promise

One morning, one day very soon, you will wake up with that warm, cozy feeling deep down in the pit of your stomach; that nearly perfect,...

You Will Find These Words When You Need To

Lean in closely to the words you are about to read. It is highly possible at least one sentence you need to see. Your heart will feel...

This Is For Every Woman Who Has Ever Doubted That She’s Able To Change...

I know that the reason why you feel stuck is because every time you try to step forward, something pushes you back. Every time you make...

10 Signs You Need To Take A Break ASAP Or Are Going To Burn...

1. You are tired all the time. It doesn’t matter if you slept nine hours last night. You have no energy this morning. The only thing...

You’re Not Going To Realize You’re Blossoming, But It’s Going To Happen Anyway

The truth is that you probably won’t recognize the moment you start to change yourself. You probably won’t know the day you meet someone who alters...

When You Are Being Your True Self Your Tribe, Your Money, And Your Love...

I know that you want to believe if you play the game right — if you make yourself more beautiful, if you exhaust every ounce of...

My Happiness Is Fragile | Thought Catalog

I hate how quickly my good mood can be ruined. I can read a single sentence, scroll past a single photo, be struck with a single...

Have Faith—There Is A Plan For All Of This

Have faith, there is a plan for all of this. You might feel the lowest you’ve ever felt. You may feel like the world is crashing down....

The Day You Stop Waiting For Them To Come Back Is The Day You...

They are not coming back. And the sooner you accept this, the quicker you will be able to gather the broken pieces of your heart and...

Your Pain Matters | Thought Catalog

Your trauma is valid. Even if other people have experienced “worse.” Even if someone else who went through the same experience doesn’t feel debilitated by it. Even if it...

I Don’t Have My Shit Together And I Hope I Never Will

We’re persuaded today that there are the three critical indigents to a destination of accomplishment, achievement, and fulfillment. They are, go to college, get a job,...

On Being Whoever You Want To Be

I keep buying long, flowy dresses because I want to be the person who wears long, flowy dresses. I don’t exactly have the kind of life...

Self Care Is Anything That Brings You Back Home To Yourself

As a writer, I have always been inspired by the concept of contrast. I have always been a firm believer in the fact that there can...

Five Little Ways To Honor Your Dreams This Year

TAKE CARE OF YOUR MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH Above all, this is the most vital. We are arriving into the new year slowly, and there is still...

You aren’t a failure. You’re a beginner.

Give yourself permission to be a beginner. Everyone starts somewhere, and every person who is really great at what they do was once someone who didn’t know...

This Is What It Means To Heal Completely, Because It’s Not About Going Back...

When something scares us but we never get over that fear, we become traumatized. When we’re traumatized, our lives start reflecting that. We begin restricting and isolating....

How You Act In The Face Of What You Can’t Control Determines Whether You’re...

The world wants you to think that there’s very little you can control. There’s a dark part of your psyche that is dependent on believing this,...

8 Uncomfortable Things You Need To Realize If You’ve Been Exaggerating Your Role In...

1. Pleasing someone won’t make them accept you. You weren’t born to erase your identity for someone else’s sake of mind. No good ever comes from placing someone...

This Is The Year You Start Feeling Again, However Slowly It Happens

When something in your life hurts you, when you get your hopes dashed and dreams broken and plans don’t unfold the way you imagined, you don’t...

You’re Not Allowed To Insult Yourself Today

Every single day, you insult yourself, you replay your awkward moments, you give yourself far less credit than you deserve. You are your own worst enemy...

Forgive yourself for what happened…

Forgive yourself for what happened. For the mistakes you made. For not showing up the way up the way you needed to. For not being the...

Post Selfies, Raise Your Standards, Love Yourself 

By now, you are used to hearing the nasty voice in the back of your head. You are used to insulting yourself. You are used to...

A Non-Comprehensive List of Things You Never Understood About Me

Self-hatred doesn’t have an outward sign. I am thin, white, female, neither too butch or too femme, and my illness can be hidden away under strategic...

What An Average Day Looks Like When You Have Trouble Loving Yourself

I cannot leave the house without a large chunk of time dedicated to getting myself ready. I could spend an hour flicking through hangers, searching for...

If You Were A ‘Smart Kid’ In School, It’s Normal To Feel Like You’re...

For twelve years of your life, you were told you were above average, so now, even when you do an average job you feel like you have...

When Your Soul Is Exhausted — Read This

I need you to understand that it is okay to have a soul that is both tender and tired. I need you to understand that it...

The Beauty In The Chaos

It’s a weird feeling sitting alone in my empty house, teetering at the end of a memory. I watched the new tenants move in, looking around...

An Open Letter To The Ones Who Did Not Choose Me

I always know something was left unsaid when the insomnia kicks in. Days in a row of waking up between 2 and 3AM. My mouth dry...

45 Things To Be Thankful For Right Now

1. The fact that you are here. You are here right now. You are capable of changing your life at any given moment. 2. The quiet seconds,...

7 Things to Remember When It Seems Like Everyone Around You Is Settling

It’s okay to stay single. It’s okay to respect yourself enough not to fall into a relationship. And it’s perfectly normal to feel left out when...

50 Small (But Big) Changes To Become An Ultimately Happier You

1. Set your alarm 15 minutes earlier. Select to wake up to your favorite song. Enjoy your coffee or tea in a special mug. This sets...

If You Want To Change Your Reality, You’re Going To Need To Be Unrealistic

If you really want to have a different life, you are going to have to be able to see beyond your life. Before you can change your...

The Love Of Your Life, Dream Job And Perfect City Will All Make You...

Figuring out whether or not something is truly right for you isn’t always an intuitive process. Sometimes, the things you’re meant for will scare you. Sometimes, they’ll...

20 Underrated Ways To Improve Your Appearance Almost Instantly

Answers found on Ask Reddit 1. Get adequate sleep 2. Don’t skip the fruits and vegetables 3. Proper haircuts (seriously, spend the money if you can!!!) 4. Well-fitting clothes 5. For...

Mary, Fucking Mary | Thought Catalog

Chansereypich Seng / Unsplash October 27th. Festival of lights. Somewhere in India. I wish I could tell you the destination, but I can’t remember much after escaping the...

35 Psychological Tricks To Effectively Manipulate Any Situation You’re In

Unsplash / Rawpixel Answers found on Ask Reddit 1. If someone starts getting aggressive with you, say a string of real words in an order that sounds right...

6 Different Types Of Goal Setting That Will Skyrocket Your Chances Of Success

Reading through these different types of goal setting should motivate you to make a change in your behavior. Your first step to goal setting is to...

This Is How You Lose People

You lose people every time you choose to be dishonest, thinking that they’ll never find out the truth. You lose people every time you decide to...

12 Benefits Of Gratitude That Will Bring You Everlasting Happiness

It’s much easier to focus on the bad than the good, but negativity is not going to get you anywhere. However, there are unlimited benefits of...

12 Tips On How To Get Rid Of Negative Thoughts Once And For All

You deserve to love yourself. You deserve to feel confident in your skin. Here is a rundown on how to get rid of negative thoughts so...

If You’re Confused, Talk To God

I discovered something recently, when you talk to people, they confuse you even more but when you talk to God, slowly but surely you begin to...

17 Harsh One-Sentence Truths That All Idealists Need To Consider

1. For as long as human beings continue to seek pleasure and gain and operate in survival mode, inequality will still exist because true and absolute equality...

If You Aren’t Willing To Start Today, You Aren’t Ready To Change Your Life

Have you ever met someone who wanted to change their eating habits, but before doing so committed to having one day or weekend in which they...

50 Valuable Pieces Of Advice For Anyone Turning 18

If you are turning 18 this year, you should follow this advice from Ask Reddit.  1. You’re still a kid, and will realize over the years that...

20 Professional Ways To Kindly Tell Your Coworkers To Go Fuck Themselves

Unsplash / Rawpixel Answers found on Ask Reddit 1. Responding to someone’s email with their direct manager in the CC field. 2. “Let’s circle back later.” (The nicer way...

What If The People In My Life Don’t Spark Joy?

“Does this spark joy?” That’s what tidying expert Marie Kondo wants you to ask yourself when looking at your belongings. And if the answer is no, the...

A Short List Of Lies I Refuse To Believe About Myself

1. I am not enough. “Enough” is a matter of perception. It’s incredibly easy to believe that the rest of the world is surpassing us, that everyone else...

50 Little Ways To Be A Happier You Every Single Day

1. Wake up ten minutes earlier than you normally do and drink your coffee (or tea) a little more slowly than usual. 2. Write one paragraph in...

10 Easily Missed Signs You’re Leading A Happy And Healthy Life

1. You’re not as comfortable right now as you wish you were. It’s okay to be uncomfortable. It’s okay to demand more from yourself. That’s part...

These 10 Keystone Habits Will Take You From A Hot Mess To A Self-Care...

These keystone habits are going to boost your productivity and lower your stress. Keystone habits lead to the development of even more good habits. They prove...

7 Powerful Attitudes You Must Have In Order To Achieve Any Change

Do you know what’s the best time of the year to make changes and new beginnings? Any time you are up to it, really! Although January...

In 2019, I Am Not Letting My Anxiety Win

I don’t want to be the quiet girl anymore. The shy girl. The boring girl. I don’t want to get overlooked while writing party invitations and...

12 Ways To Be Good To Yourself This Year And Every Year After

1. Be mindful of what you think, feel, and want. It’s important to recognize that we all hold selfish needs and desires inside, but it’s critical...

I’m Slowly Learning How To Love Again

I’m slowly learning that it’s okay to believe again. It’s okay to believe that someone finds you adorable and special. It’s okay to believe the sweet...

A Few Small Things That Have Helped Me Love My Body Lately

If you’ve been struggling with self-love lately, here are a few things I’ve tried recently that have had really good results for me. Being gentle with everyone Like...

50 Powerful Reminders From Actual Therapists To Encourage Your Personal Growth 

You will become a better person after reading this advice from Ask Reddit. 1. Imagine you are standing at a train platform and unhelpful thoughts are the trains...

The Truth About Settling For Less Than What You Deserve

The truth is it will always feel like something is missing. Something is incomplete. You’re not the best version of yourself. You don’t look at yourself...

25 Tiny Things To Cut Out Of Your Life That Will Save You A...

Unsplash / Sharon McCutcheon Answers found on Ask Reddit 1. Fast food 2. Cable 3. Buying books (a library card is free!) 4. Soda 5. Alcohol 6. Phone upgrades (instead, keep using the...

What 2019 Has In Store For You Based On Your Zodiac Sign

2018? Thank u, next. 2019 is here and ready to change some lives! Capricorn (December 22nd to January 20th)  You know what you want, don’t you? Go out and get...

50 Empowering Life Lessons For Strong Girls To Take Into 2019 

In order to make 2019 your best year yet, follow these enlightening pieces of advice from Ask Reddit. 1. If you put someone on a pedestal, you give...

8 Easy Ways To Make Your New Year’s Resolutions Last

It’s officially the beginning of 2019, which means that most of us are still pretty invested in our New Year’s resolutions. After all, we generally view...

50 Bad Habits To Leave Behind In 2019

Do not let any of these bad habits from Ask Reddit follow you into the new year. 1. Saying yes too much. Just because you want people...

50 Stupidly Simple Ways Insecure Girls Can Learn Self-Love

These tips from Ask Reddit will help you see yourself in a better light. 1. Practice complimenting others. Do this especially for small traits, or particular aspects...

16 Things People Don’t Realize You’re Doing Because You Haven’t Mastered Loving Yourself Quite...

1. Loving yourself based on a set of conditions you have to meet You set conditional requirements for yourself and only feel like you love yourself when...

32 Microshifts You Can Start Doing Today To Transform Your 2019

Chances are, every time you’ve tried to make a change in your life, you attempted to force a breakthrough. You decided you were going to make...

19 Things To Do More Of In 2019

1. Practice gratitude. Somehow, we’ve cultivated habits of practicing judgment, jealousy or self-pity. Imagine if you spent that time telling yourself one thing you’re grateful for...

This Year, I Finally Let You Go

This year, I finally let you go. If someone had told me that a year ago, I would have been thoroughly convinced that our time wasn’t up...

Do Me A Favor And Know When To End Things

Do me a favor and know when to end things. When it causes you more pain than joy, end it. When it makes you feel like you’re not...

Meet Me In January | Thought Catalog

It’s that time of the year again to do some reflection. A year of exploration and letting go. It has been such a fluctuating year of...

Maybe I Am ‘Too Much’ But I Just Can’t Be Anything Else

I don’t know how to be anythingother than intense.All in.Too much.Too involved.I don’t know how to be an almostor anything in between.But there’s a price you...

Every Book I Read In 2018, Ranked

Twenty-eighteen is the year I decided to get back into reading things I didn’t have to read, and I’ve never been more glad — I got to spend...