9 Signs You’re Just In Love With The Idea Of Someone, Not Who They...

By Brianna Wiest Updated August 27, 2020 Photo by Daniel Monteiro on Unsplash By Brianna Wiest Updated August 27, 2020 Photo by Daniel Monteiro on Unsplash Sometimes, love can exist more in...

The Lie Each Zodiac Sign Believes That Is Hurting Their Chance At Love

Aries You believe every relationship is bound to end in flames. You believe letting someone into your heart is going to end in pain. But not everyone...

When You Love Someone, You Overcome Your Obstacles Together

When you love someone, you don’t leave them hanging when they come to you for help. You don’t walk away while they’re crying their eyes out....

30 Harsh Truths About Love And Attraction

1. The saddest thing in a relationship (that isn’t outwardly awful/abusive) is when someone dates another person because that person likes them. It’s like telling yourself...

Let Yourself Walk Away From A Love That Doesn’t Deserve You

Sometimes, you have a gut feeling that it is time to walk away from someone you care about, but part of you is still craving closure....

On Women Who Hate Cats But Love Men With Cats

When FM first told me that he wanted to adopt a cat, I groaned. Why could it not have been a dog? I knew why. He was religious...

These Are The 4 Zodiac Signs Who Are The Most Skeptical About Love

Scorpios are considered one of the most sensual signs in the zodiac, but they know sex and love aren’t necessarily interchangeable. As much as they would...

This Is How Each Zodiac Sign Gets You To Fall For Them

Aries: They take you on spontaneous dates Aries are known to jump the gun on things, but this can be part of their charm. Rather than plan...

How Each Zodiac Sign Shows Love From Afar

Aries They send you songs and playlists to show you how much you mean to them. Taurus They text you every few minutes about whatever random thing in on...

This Is Why You’re Most Likely To Fall In Love With Someone Whose Self-Esteem...

They say we accept the love we think we deserve, but we also accept the partners we think deserve us. The truth is that you’re far more...

Please Remember That People Do Not Need To Be Perfect Before They Can Be...

Please remember that people do not need to be their best possible selves before you can honor them. Please remember that people do not need to complete...

What Each Zodiac Sign Commonly Mistakes For Love

Aries Passion Taurus Platonic friendship Gemini Possessiveness Cancer Jealousy Leo Lust Virgo Attention Libra Infatuation Scorpio Financial security Sagittarius Good sex Capricorn Validation Aquarius Boredom Pisces Butterflies Source link

When You Love Someone, Their Priorities Should Mean A Lot To You, Too 

It’s impossible to have everything in common with your person. You’re two different humans, so there are going to be differences in opinion. There are going...

How Each Zodiac Sign Prefers To Give Affection

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In This Time Of Darkness, Please Care More

In the United States, the coronavirus is spreading like wildfire, with no end in sight. And it’s dauntingly too late to take many of the lifesaving...

I’m Exhausted Of Men Keeping It Casual In Order To Gaslight Women

TW: I am a woman who exclusively has sex with men. I can only speak to my experience! When I think about the things I enjoy about...

Loving You Was A Lot Like That One Time I Dislocated My Shoulder

When I was 14, I dislocated my right shoulder during a playoff basketball game. My upper arm separated from my shoulder socket, shifting forward a bruised,...

This Is The Type Of Person Each Zodiac Sign Can’t Help But Fall For

Aries: The spirited, stubborn one Aries are a sucker for high-spirited types. They want someone that matches their energy without overshadowing it. They want to be the...

The Best Relationship Of Your Life Will Be With A Girl Who Loves Fearlessly

Love is a scary subject. Yes, we often paint it with roses and sunset backdrops, sweet words, and nights spent lying next to each other. When we...

How To Deal With Valentine’s Day If You Can’t Get Over Your Ex

It sucks to watch the whole world celebrate love when you’re still in a phase of mourning your last relationship. More than ever it’s easy to...

What You Think It Will Be Like Dating Each Zodiac Sign Vs. What It’s...

Aries Expectation: They’ll want to go on non-stop adventures; sitting at home isn’t an option for them. They can be hot-headed and get into dumb fights with...

You Deserve Someone Who Is Excited To Love You

It seems that in the course of modern dating, romance movies, dating apps, and failed connections, we decided that we were asking too much when it...

How A Trip To A Pediatric Burn Hospital Helped Me Heal Postpartum Anxiety

It was my turn to wake up with our son, but I was tired that Sunday morning, so we broke a lot of my rules. Still...

Keeping Plants — And Love — Alive

Everything I’m about to tell you about plants is likely wildly inaccurate. I’m not a botanist. I’m not even a great gardener. I’m a mediocre keeper...

What Rosie From ‘Caillou’ Taught Me About Vulnerability

At some point during one of our conversations, my boyfriend and I started talking about obscure children’s cartoon characters. Our conversations tend to do this, meandering...

I Hate You, Don’t Leave Me

I understand it now, why hurricanes are named after people. You blew into my life, a whirlwind of epic proportions. And in the middle of it...

I Was A Living Heart-Eyed Emoji For You

The waitress asked, “Can I get you two anything else?” If only waitresses were genies who could grant wishes. From the start the menu read “crash and...

Me, Him, And A Few Other Things I’m Admittedly Afraid Of

I stopped taking Xanax some time ago. But inside my purse, I’m carrying the last two. Just in case, I thought the day I put them...

This Is The Kind Of Date You Deserve

You deserve a date that makes your heart skip a beat. Maybe it’s the way they look. Perhaps it’s the way they look at you. Maybe it’s...

The Best Thing About Dating You, Based On Your Enneagram Type

Type 1: You aren’t afraid to do what’s right. You aren’t afraid to do the right thing, even if it’s not the most popular choice. The people...

Maybe I’m Not Very Good At Understanding Love—But I Do Know This

Maybe I’m not very good at understanding love, after all. But I do know that I love the way the sun diffuses rays of yellow, orange,...

How Life Changes After Finding Love

We think that all our questions get answered when we find the right person. We think that the moment we’ve found love, we’ve found a way...

One Year Of You

June It wasn’t love at first sight with him but familiarity – the kind that only deepened the more our paths crossed, like walking on uncharted territory...

Stay Single Until Love Feels Exactly Like This

Stay single until you find someone who doesn’t want to play games, someone who knows what they want. Someone who will tell you how they feel,...

This Is The Only Way To Truly Determine If Someone Is The ‘Love Of...

When you are growing up, everyone tells you that you will “just know” when you’ve met the person you’re going to be with forever. This supposed just...

Friends Don’t Touch Like This

The sun is slipping beyond the city skyline. You’re sat close to me but we don’t touch. That was part of the deal. It’s warm out,...

Beware Of The Day She Takes All Her Love Back

Beware of the day she gives up because that means she’s reached her boiling point. It means that she’s been holding on and trying for far...

A Long List Of Scary Things About Men

I’m in LA to work on some projects for Creepy Catalog, so it’s only natural that when I felt like writing today I felt like tackling...

We Used To Kiss | Thought Catalog

(This poem is a dedication to the LGBTQ and growing community. In the 1980’s, many queer individuals lost their lives and loved ones due to the...

If You Feel Like Love Is Always Escaping You, Read This

They say that when love is right, it will find you. That if it’s meant to be yours, it won’t run away. That real love that’s...

On Living With And Loving A Blackhole Of A Human

It wasn’t him I fell in love with, but the relief I felt when he left for work. The silence that arrived after he immediately locked...

If This Were My Book The Ending Would Be So Different

“Once he had told her something that she could not imagine: that amputees suffer pains, cramps, itches, in the leg that is no longer there. That...

Loving You Is A Privilege That Won’t Always Be Mine

I was spritzing on some Rose 31 by Le Labo, a gift my ex bought me, when it struck me—since a good scent always strikes some...

I’ll Never Be Satisfied With Mediocre Love

I’ll never be satisfied with mediocrity when it comes to love. I’ll never be satisfied with sweet words only without actions to prove them. I’ll never...

In 2019, Stop Saying No To Love

It’s easy to say no to love. It’s easy to keep a guard up, to push people away when they start to get close and to stay...

The Soulmate Potential Of A Pisces-Capricorn Relationship

When a Pisces and a Capricorn fall in love, it’s a union between solid Earth and mystical waters. And while you might think that sounds like...

3 New Poems!

A Tarot Spread With The Magician As The Significator If I were to query A tarot spread For how I’ve Been feeling lately They would all be a cup And upright Except maybe The...

12 Things It’s Okay That You Mistook For Love

1. Sympathy. It’s not your fault that you fell for someone who listened to you and actually cared. That doesn’t happen often in this self-obsessed, busy world....