Maybe You Don’t Need A Reinvention, Maybe You Just Need To Be A Little...

Maybe you don’t need a reinvention. Maybe you don’t need to change your life. Maybe you are not seven steps, a move, a job, a goal, a relationship...

This Is Your Evergreen Reminder That Slowing Down Is Not Falling Behind

Even if your plans have changed, even if your timeline is different, even if this year has not unfolded the way you thought it would —...

You Are Allowed To Revise Your Dreams, Don’t Let Anybody Tell You Differently

If you’re like most people, there will probably come a time in your life when you are faced with the realization that the things you once...

35 R-Rated Tips That Will Make Sex Better 

1. Use cold water to wash cum out of hair etc. Hot water denatures the proteins and makes it super sticky. 2. Never go from anal to...

You Have To Make The Most Of The Chances Life Gives To You

We often get paralyzed in the concept of is this right? Should I wait? Is there anything better? Should I settle? How do I know if...

Have My Best Years Escaped Me?

I fear my best years may have escaped me. It’s hardly the time to be having a quarter-life crisis. Well, actually it is exactly the time at...

The Honest Truth About Following Your Dreams That Almost Nobody Is Willing To Swallow

If you are someone who is intent on following your dreams in life, there are a few things you will need to know. First of all, you...

Not Everybody Is Going To Grow—It’s Not Your Job To Force Them

When you’re young, your path in life is set. You are not that much different than most people you know. You attend the same schools, you move from...

The Key To Being Captivating

In the halcyon pre-COVID era — which was either a generation ago, or last year, as time’s dissolved into a hazy suspension of eternity and ephemera...

40 Invaluable Pieces Of Advice From People Over 40 Who Are Happy With Their...

These pieces of advice from Ask Reddit are invaluable. 1. Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don’t put up with people who are reckless with...

30 Impactful Lessons I Hope You Learn In Your Twenties

I think we “grow up” in our twenties. We work on becoming (and figuring out) who we want to be. And as we move through these...

There Is No Such Thing As Falling Behind, There Is Not Just One Way...

Here is a sentence that will either disrupt your worldview or free you, and probably both: Everybody is having the exact experience that they are meant to...

Responding To The Trigger Differently Is The Only Way You’re Going To Heal It

We often think that what unravels our lives are singular events, instances we can pinpoint our pain to. This is actually the exception to the rule. Two people...

Being Petty About Your Past Makes You Look Worse Than Anyone Else

There is a difference between being hurt by the past, and being petty about the past. There is a difference between shedding light on wrongdoing, and poking...

This Is How You Will Know If You’re Actually On The Wrong Path In...

Sometimes, it isn’t always clear that we are on the wrong path in life until we are too far down it to easily turn around. We have...

The Honest Truth About The People Who Drive You Completely Insane

In life, we come across many people who embody everything we do not want to be. Given that most people are generally predisposed to be kind and...

Trying To Make Your Life Perfect Is What’s Preventing It From Being Good Enough

In life, there’s something called the law of reverse effort. Reverse effort is why sand sits in your palm when it’s open and relaxed, but slips through...

If My Death Was Days Away, Here Are The 9 Lessons I’d Leave Behind

The way you write during your last few days as a human being with a heartbeat are radically different. I’m not there yet, but I have...

Stop Faulting Other People For Crossing Boundaries You Never Set In The First Place

Your entire life is constructed of boundaries. Your coworkers know how to treat you because of your office culture, because of your company’s policies, because of common...

And This Is Why I’ll Get Over You

It was the moment that I realized that for all of the moments you were on my mind, I was just an afterthought. I put you...

This Year, Please Stop Fighting Battles You Can’t Win

Please stop fighting battles you cannot win. Please stop trying to shop your way into self-esteem. Please stop trying to convince people to love you when they...

10 Reminders To Tell Yourself As The Decade Ends And The New Year Begins

The end of the year always causes us to reflect on our lives, how we could’ve changed them, and what we’re proud of. It can feel...

You Aren’t A ‘Before’ Picture, You’re Worthy Of The Life You Want Right Now

The thing about self-esteem is that nobody is going to come along one day and convince you that you’re enough. In all of our magical healing fantasies,...

The People You Envy Are Not Your Enemies, They Are Your Mentors

Envy is a shadow emotion. It’s the dark side of desire, and it shields itself as so many different things. We often don’t realize that we’re jealous of...

And This Is When You Will Save Yourself

“Nobody will protect you from your suffering. You can’t cry it away or eat it away or starve it away or walk it away or punch...

Healing Is Not Just Disregarding Everyone Else’s Needs In Favor Of Your Own

There is so much counterproductive advice circulating about what emotional healing is. So many of us break under the weight of other people’s expectations. We string ourselves...

Your Life Becomes The Sum Of What You Tolerate

In an ideal world, life would amount to the sum of our intentions. Good things would happen to good people; we’d be measured by our heart and...

A Case For The Grey Area

I wish you could see how special you truly are. Instead, you’re focused on what could have been and sad about what will no longer be. I...

As Soon As You Master Where You Are, It’s Time To Move Onto The...

You spend so much time working to find your footing in the phase of life you’re in. You spend so much time trying to master the...

This Is The Advice Girls In Their Twenties Need From Women In Their Forties

Netflix’s Wine Country allowed us to reconnect with some of our favorite women in comedy: Tina Fey, Amy Poehler, Maya Rudolph, Paula Pell, Rachel Dratch, and...

19 Things You Can Do In The Next Year That Can Change The Entire...

1. Gain financial clarity. Make a spreadsheet of your debts, and expenses. List them from least to greatest, and start paying them off in a snowball....

55 Harsh Truths You Have To Accept, No Matter How Shitty They Seem

Here are a few harsh truths about the real world brought to you from Ask Reddit.  1. No matter how much anyone likes you or loves you,...

Prove To The Universe That You’re Ready To Go All In, And See How...

It is not enough just to ask. It is not enough just to visualize the outcome, to imagine your next level life, to know with complete clarity...

Read This When You Can’t Decide Between What Your Heart Wants And What Your...

From the time you’re little, everyone offers you advice on how to navigate your mind and heart. They’ll tell you to follow your gut, trust your...

When You Are Being Your True Self Your Tribe, Your Money, And Your Love...

I know that you want to believe if you play the game right — if you make yourself more beautiful, if you exhaust every ounce of...

7 Things to Remember When It Seems Like Everyone Around You Is Settling

It’s okay to stay single. It’s okay to respect yourself enough not to fall into a relationship. And it’s perfectly normal to feel left out when...

50 Valuable Pieces Of Advice For Anyone Turning 18

If you are turning 18 this year, you should follow this advice from Ask Reddit.  1. You’re still a kid, and will realize over the years that...

50 Powerful Reminders From Actual Therapists To Encourage Your Personal Growth 

You will become a better person after reading this advice from Ask Reddit. 1. Imagine you are standing at a train platform and unhelpful thoughts are the trains...