11 Signs You’re Healing Past Trauma You Didn’t Even Know You Had

Trauma is sneaky in that it is subtle. It is so subtle, in fact, we can allow it to become normalized to the point that we...

Sometimes, Letting Go Means You Love Yourself More Than You Love Them 

Letting go doesn’t mean you don’t love them. It doesn’t mean that you don’t value the time you’ve spent together or the memories you’ve made. Sometimes,...

I Miss You, But I Understand We Aren’t Meant For Each Other

I want things to be different. I desperately do. I’ve always held out hope that we would find a way if we just tried hard enough. If...

On Making Peace With Endings

I have a tendency to hold on too tightly, to people, to places, and to moments, stretching out all of the goodness until the final breaking...

Even Here, Even Now — You Are Still Exactly Where You Are Meant To...

Your growth as a person is not contingent upon everything unfolding perfectly. Your growth as a person is not dependent on how seamlessly you can manage all...

You Can’t Make Them Want You

The questions linger in your head, even when you try to ignore them. “Why don’t they want me? What’s wrong with me?” The truth is, it’s not always...

Read This When You Know What You Need To Heal, But Don’t Know How

If you know that you need to heal but don’t know where to begin, you will need to trust the process. You will need to trust the...

You Will Move On | Thought Catalog

I know that you can’t picture your life without them. It’s not a small thing, a tiny feeling to take lightly. I know that without them,...

Not Everyone Is Going To Heal The Way You Did, And They’re Not Supposed...

At this moment, everyone you know is having the exact experience that they need to have. This is hard to accept sometimes. When we see someone we love...

Being Petty About Your Past Makes You Look Worse Than Anyone Else

There is a difference between being hurt by the past, and being petty about the past. There is a difference between shedding light on wrongdoing, and poking...

Everyone Grieves In Their Own Way, So Stop Judging Someone Else’s Process

No two people experience grief the same way. There is no one right way to do it. When you see someone go through a loss, sometimes, you empathize,...

Moving On Without You | Thought Catalog

I knew it was going to be hard to leave you behind, but never did I think someone I knew for such a short time could...

This Is The Year You Let Go Of Everything You Can’t Imagine Having In...

This is the year that you clear your path so that you can finally see the light on the horizon. This is the year that you stop...

I Will Leave You In 2019, And I Won’t Look Back

I will leave you in 2019, but not what you taught me. I refuse to forget how you filled my heart with fireflies that brightened up...

In 2020, Let Go Of The Things That Hold You Back

As the end of the year comes to a close, it’s essential to look around at your life. Take the time to reflect on all the...

And This Is When You Will Save Yourself

“Nobody will protect you from your suffering. You can’t cry it away or eat it away or starve it away or walk it away or punch...

How To Let Go Of Someone Who Has Already Let Go Of You

Take a deep breath. Count to three. Exhale. Sometimes it’s hard to let people go. However, sometimes we are left with no other choice. The reasons are...

It’s Time I Said Goodbye To You

I was driving to work  and saw how much the leaves had begun to change. Their vibrant reds and oranges, scattered on the ground and hanging...

I Miss You, But I Can’t Wait For You Anymore

I can’t wait around for you anymore. Even as I say it, it feels like a lie. It feels like a lie because of how long I...

The Honest Truth About What Happens After You Free Yourself From An Almost Relationship

When you’re in an almost relationship, you’re in a sense, tied down. You’re committed. You see a future. You don’t want to date anyone else. So...

You Do Not Have To Give Them Another Chance

I know that there is a part of you that is thinking about giving you past relationship another chance. It makes sense to want to justify trying...

Six Things To Remember When It’s Time To Actually Move On

One, he’s gone. He’s not coming back. He is now a wind passing to your window, forcing you to remember the smell of his breath and the...

This Is Me Saying Goodbye To Modern Dating

This is me saying goodbye to modern dating; this is me saying goodbye to that rush of adrenaline when someone decides to swipe right on my...

This Is How You Start To Let Go, Even If You Don’t Feel Like...

You cannot force yourself to let go, no matter how much you know you want to. You cannot force something out of your brain space, no matter...

This Is How They’ll Heal Your Heart Based On Their Zodiac Sign

Aries: March 21st-April 19th: They will make you forget how boring and plain the world can be. Aries are known to be bold, excitable, and adventurous. They...

Forget That Thing You Heard About Love Having To Hurt Sometimes

honey, i get it. no one’s ever kissed you quite like that, and when he touches you, everything’s a little brighter, leaves aren’t just green, but about...

This Is Me Finally Learning To Unlove You

It’s been months since you left me. The first time, at least. Since then you’ve come in and out of my life like a revolving door...

This Year, I Finally Let You Go

This year, I finally let you go. If someone had told me that a year ago, I would have been thoroughly convinced that our time wasn’t up...