What Each Zodiac Sign Thinks When They See Their Person

Aries You think about how excited you are to embark on future adventures together. Taurus You think about how long you’ve been together and how much you’ve grown as...

6 Questions You Should Ask Yourself Before Committing To Someone

1. Do you like them or the idea of them? Are you excited about the fact that you’re going to date them in particular or are...

Here’s A Twitter Thread Of Women Exposing Men Who Asked Them For Money

Historically women have been called gold-diggers any time they require any kind of effort from men, even if he doesn’t have any gold to dig. Now,...

What Each Zodiac Sign Hates The Most About Long-Distance

Aries You hate sleeping alone instead of having someone to cuddle at night. Taurus You hate looking to your future together instead of actually enjoying your present. Gemini You hate that...

What Each Zodiac Will Consider The Last Straw In A Relationship

Aries It will be the last straw when their partner makes the same mistake twice. Once they can forgive, but not twice. Taurus It will be the last straw...

What Each Zodiac Sign Worries About The Most During Dates

Aries You worry about coming across as too sarcastic, dark, and intimidating. Taurus You worry about coming across as too talkative, childish, and weird. Gemini You worry about coming across as...

8 Signs You’re Crushing Hard And Don’t Even Realize It

1. You want their attention on you and only you. When you’re hanging out with a large group of people, it annoys you when they pay too...

Why Each Zodiac Will Never Get Into An Almost Relationship Again

Aries You don’t do anything halfway. When you’re invested in someone, you want something real with them. Taurus You can’t stand inconsistency. You need someone who is always going...

30 Things Single Guys Wish Girls Would Keep In Mind While Dating

Some men from Ask Reddit have some requests from the women they date. 1. Say what you mean! Don’t dance around an issue. Don’t make it a...

What Each Zodiac Sign Needs To Stop Falling For

Aries Stop falling for people who expect you to come running when they call, even though they’re never there when you need them. Taurus Stop falling for people who...

Why Each Zodiac Is ‘Just Friends’ With Their Crush

Aries You’re scared to settle down with someone you like this much. You’re scared of getting your heart broken. Taurus You’re scared of ruining the friendship. You’re scared you’ll...

A Love Letter To The Tinder Matches That Never Were

I know we spent a lot of time getting to know each other. I remember all of the late-night conversations and the way it always felt...

The Reality Of Being A Bisexual Woman In A Straight-Presenting Relationship

In a survey I read online, I found out that over half of all bisexual people all over the world end up dating and settling down...

6 Ways To Be A Better Partner When You Have An Anxious Attachment Style

Your attachment style is formed when you’re a child. The bond your parents make with you, or lack of one, determines how you experience love in your adult life. My parents...

What Each Zodiac Sign Couldn’t Care Less About When It Comes To Dating

Aries They don’t care about whether you make a lot of money as long as you’re passionate about the work you’re doing. Taurus They don’t care about whether you...

What Type Of Person Each Zodiac Sign Is Drawn To

Aries You’re drawn to people with piercings, tattoos, and an IDGAF attitude. Taurus You’re drawn to people who are soft-hearted, cuddly, and couldn’t harm a fly. Gemini You’re drawn to people...

Why Each Zodiac Sign Is Afraid Of Modern Dating

Aries You’re afraid of spending so much time on someone, only to get ghosted by them. Taurus You’re afraid of opening up to someone about things you’re insecure about...

The Chore Each Zodiac Hates (And Will Force You To Do When You’re Dating)

Aries The laundry. They are too impatient. Waiting for the washer and dryer to finish is going to drive them crazy. Taurus Mowing the lawn. They would much rather...

When They Tell You They Aren’t Ready, You Need To Believe Them

I know that it’s taken you a long time to get to this place. Honestly, you weren’t sure if it would happen. You had moments where...

9 Signs You’re Just In Love With The Idea Of Someone, Not Who They...

By Brianna Wiest Updated August 27, 2020 Photo by Daniel Monteiro on Unsplash By Brianna Wiest Updated August 27, 2020 Photo by Daniel Monteiro on Unsplash Sometimes, love can exist more in...

How Each Zodiac Wants To Be Kissed

Aries They want to be kissed with passion and intensity. They want to feel your excitement. Taurus They want cute, playful kisses on their foreheads when you leave for...

Save Yourself The Trouble And Avoid Dating These 6 Types Of Guys 

1. The jealous guy. You might think his jealousy is cute at first. You might think it shows how much he cares about you. But that...

How Each Zodiac Sign Handles Long-Distance Relationships

Aries You hop on a plane or take a road trip to see your partner whenever possible. You can’t stay apart for long. Taurus You spend a lot of...

Why Each Zodiac Sign Might Lose Interest While Dating

Aries You lose interest when the other person seemingly loses interest in you. Taurus You lose interest when they try to move too quickly in a short amount of time. Gemini You...

Why Each Zodiac Will Turn Down A Date With You

Aries They’ll turn down a date if they don’t feel excited around you, if you don’t bring out their butterflies. Taurus They’ll turn down a date if they don’t...

Why Each Zodiac Sign Will Pull Away, Even When They Like You

Aries They don’t want to get attached to someone. They love being independent — and want to stay that way. Taurus They hate change. The thought of getting into...

6 Reminders To Read When You Get Ghosted

1. You probably didn’t do anything wrong. You have to stop replaying conversations in your head and trying to figure out where you went wrong because...

The Truth About The Guy Who Just Wants To ‘See Where It Goes’

The truth is, he doesn’t care about you. If he respected you, he wouldn’t string you along. If he had feelings for you, he wouldn’t put...

15 Things Women Need To Stop Obsessing Over To Impress Men

If you’re worried about what men think of you, this list from Ask Reddit should reassure you they aren’t as harsh as you think. 1. I think...

The Super Small Thing Each Zodiac Sign Appreciates The Most During A Date

Aries She wants you to ask questions instead of only talking about yourself. Taurus She wants you to hold open the door and pull out her chair. Gemini She wants you...

Why Each Zodiac Sign Wants To Discover True Love

Aries You’re sick of people leaving. You want someone who stays. Taurus You feel like no one understands you. You just want someone on your side. Gemini You feel incomplete and...

What Each Zodiac Sign Values (Emotionally) In A Partner 

Aries You want a partner who makes compromises because your happiness matters as much as their own. Taurus You want a partner who isn’t afraid to cry in front...

How Each Zodiac Sign Acts When They Want To Be In A Relationship Vs....

Relationship: When it comes to relationships, there is a stereotype that long-term connections can become monotonous or boring. An Aries strives for quite the opposite- they...

What Each Zodiac Sign Gets Shy About In New Relationships

Aries You’re shy when it comes to talking about your feelings. Taurus You’re shy when it comes to making the first move. Gemini You’re shy when it comes to sending the...

This Is How Each Zodiac Sign Gets You To Fall For Them

Aries: They take you on spontaneous dates Aries are known to jump the gun on things, but this can be part of their charm. Rather than plan...

Stop Rushing Into The Wrong Relationships For The Wrong Reasons

You shouldn’t rush into the wrong relationship because you’re lonely. It’s much more fun to be single than to be stuck with the wrong person. Having...

Don’t Let Your Almost Hold You Back From New Love

Even though you have strong feeling for them, even though you have your heart set on ending up with them, even though you’re convinced one day...

How Likely Each Zodiac Is To Make The First Move

Aries You never hesitate to make the first move. You’re impulsive, so you can’t hold back your feelings for long. Taurus You’re only going to make the first move...

27 Types Of Guys (And Girls) You Should Never Date 

1. Never date someone who makes you feel insecure about your laugh, your weight, or your personality. 2. Never date someone who tells little white lies and leaves out...

If They Wanted To Be In Your Life, They Would Be

It sounds harsh, I know. Yet the sooner you realize this, the better. I know that it can be easy to justify why they aren’t around. Maybe...

This Is Why You’re Most Likely To Fall In Love With Someone Whose Self-Esteem...

They say we accept the love we think we deserve, but we also accept the partners we think deserve us. The truth is that you’re far more...

The Boring, Mundane Thing Each Zodiac Sign Loves Doing In Relationships

Aries Going grocery shopping together. Taurus Sitting in silence while you’re both on your own laptops. Gemini Holding hands while you’re sitting on the couch. Cancer Washing the dishes together. Leo Picking out new furniture...

If You’re Planning On Spending Forever Together, You Need To Get Used To These...

1. You need to get used to sitting in silence. You should feel comfortable with your person. You should be able to enjoy their company, even...

7 Ways You’re Probably Traumatized By Modern Dating

Modern dating is extremely traumatizing. Connection is obstructed, you’re chastised for getting attached, and the sheer availability of an entire sea of dating apps, profiles and potential...

What Makes Your Girlfriend Feel Misunderstood, Disrespected, And Unappreciated (Based On Her Zodiac Sign)

Aries When you interrupt and constantly talk over her while she’s trying to tell a story. Taurus When you discount her feelings and act like she’s overreacting every time...

What Each Zodiac Sign Needs From Their Forever Person During Tough Times

Aries They need constant pep talks. Taurus They need a shoulder to cry on. Gemini They need comfort food. Cancer They need reassurance everything is going to be okay. Leo They need validation about their...

If You Want Someone Spontaneous, You Shouldn’t Date Me

I consider myself adventurous, but I’m not even close to spontaneous. I will go hiking with you. Road tripping. Skydiving. Bungee jumping. White water rafting. I’m...

6 Signs Your Future Doesn’t Include Him 

1. He isn’t treating you great right now. You shouldn’t stay with someone in the hopes they’re going to change their behavior, in the hopes they are...

Marry Someone You Would Want Your Daughter To Marry

Marry someone you would want your daughter to marry. Marry someone who wakes you up with the same joy that you’d want giving your baby every morning....

Just Because Your Heart Is Hurting, It Doesn’t Mean You Need To Stay Single

No, you shouldn’t get into a serious relationship with someone new while you’re still obsessing over your ex. No, you shouldn’t leap into the first set...

I’m Exhausted Of Men Keeping It Casual In Order To Gaslight Women

TW: I am a woman who exclusively has sex with men. I can only speak to my experience! When I think about the things I enjoy about...

The Best Relationship Of Your Life Will Be With A Girl Who Loves Fearlessly

Love is a scary subject. Yes, we often paint it with roses and sunset backdrops, sweet words, and nights spent lying next to each other. When we...

What You Think It Will Be Like Dating Each Zodiac Sign Vs. What It’s...

Aries Expectation: They’ll want to go on non-stop adventures; sitting at home isn’t an option for them. They can be hot-headed and get into dumb fights with...

You Deserve Someone Who Is Excited To Love You

It seems that in the course of modern dating, romance movies, dating apps, and failed connections, we decided that we were asking too much when it...

The 4 Zodiac Signs That Are Finally Done Chasing The Wrong Hearts

Taurus You’ve been fooled by almost relationships one too many times in the past. You’re sick of doing all the work. You’re sick of making all the...

40 Hilarious Responses To ‘What Are Your Intentions With My Daughter?’

If your parents are about to meet your boyfriend, make sure he doesn’t use any of these lines from Ask Reddit. 1. Why? Do you want to...

When You Care About Someone, Show It

When you care about someone, show it. Allow yourself to act vulnerable. Give yourself permission to express your emotions. Don’t leave anything left unsaid. Don’t censor...

What Each Zodiac Sign Considers Unforgivable In Relationships 

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The Honest Truth Is That Good Relationships Don’t End, And Romanticizing The Past Is...

If you feel as though you cannot move on from the past, as though everything good is behind you, and as though you cannot understand why...

You’re Not ‘Crazy’ For Getting Attached, It’s Crazy That We Treat Dating So Casually...

When an almost relationship comes to an end, there’s usually not a definitive breaking point. There’s just drifting, fading, and then, of course, an inquiry. You wonder...

I Wonder If My Rapist Knows He’s A Rapist?

By Chrissy Stockton Updated November 19, 2019 Processed with VSCO with f2 preset Writer’s note: Rape is a sensitive topic so please think carefully about whether you’d like to...

This Is The Kind Of Date You Deserve

You deserve a date that makes your heart skip a beat. Maybe it’s the way they look. Perhaps it’s the way they look at you. Maybe it’s...

The Best Thing About Dating You, Based On Your Enneagram Type

Type 1: You aren’t afraid to do what’s right. You aren’t afraid to do the right thing, even if it’s not the most popular choice. The people...

How To Close Out A 10 Year Cycle Of Being Bad At Dating

10 years ago I was a tiny baby angel in my early 20’s. I had just escaped a cult (but I wouldn’t call it that for...

What You Want Vs. What You Need In A Relationship Based On Your Enneagram...

Type 1: The Reformer What You Want: Someone to always say you’re right. Someone who is essentially perfect and what you expect in your head. Someone who...

What Gives Each Zodiac Sign Butterflies

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What Each Zodiac Sign Dreads About First Dates

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There’s A Difference Between Romantic And Attachment Love, And It Will Help You Figure...

There are many different types of love we experience in a lifetime. You know that the type of love you have for your parent isn’t the...

The Worst First Date To Take Each Zodiac Sign On

Aries Don’t take them to a coffee shop. It’s too bland, boring, and predictable for them. Taurus Don’t take them straight to your house. They expect more romance than...

This Is Me Saying Goodbye To Modern Dating

This is me saying goodbye to modern dating; this is me saying goodbye to that rush of adrenaline when someone decides to swipe right on my...

A (Totally Not Sarcastic) List Of Reasons Why You Should Definitely Date Me

Upon being asked for the hundredth time why I am single and if I will ever find someone who will help me grace this world with...

What Matters Most To You In Relationships, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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A Long List Of Scary Things About Men

I’m in LA to work on some projects for Creepy Catalog, so it’s only natural that when I felt like writing today I felt like tackling...

Got A Long List Of Ex-Lovers, They’ll Tell You I’m Insane (Bc Of The...

Many lifetimes ago I was sitting on a guy’s porch with him drinking and stargazing. We were having a thing and were in a phase where...

Date Someone Who Doesn’t Confuse You

Date someone who doesn’t confuse you. Someone who doesn’t send you mixed messages, someone who remains as keen on date six, as they were on date...

When I Look At You, I’m Home

It’s so strange. Upon meeting you, I unintentionally gave you a nickname that happened to be after the same character as the very first stuffed animal...

If You Know An INFJ, You Should Know How To Love Them

If you know anything about the Myers Briggs personality types, you know that INFJs are the rarest. INFJs are people whose personalities favor the personality attributes...

Are You Asking For Too Much Or Are You Just Asking The Wrong Person?

There’s a difference between someone who likes you and someone who appreciates you. There’s a difference between someone who thinks you’re convenient and someone who thinks...

When He’s Still Struggling To Move On

One day, I open the trunk in his hallway, searching for a lost book. Hair extensions in a familiar shade of platinum spill out of the...

20 People Reveal What Happened To The Marriage Pacts They Made When They Were...

Answers found on Ask Reddit 1. “I did. I dated my first girlfriend when we were about 17-19. Then she broke up with me but we had...

Maybe It’s Not Me | Thought Catalog

Maybe you’re afraid of commitment. The way someone runs from a scary monster or a man with an axe. But I’m a girl with a cozy...

Dating In 2019 | Thought Catalog

He says he tells his sister he’s dating someone. And I guess that’s what it is. And I’ve always been a firm believer in calling things...

This Is Who You’re Most Likely To Date, Based On Your Zodiac Element

Aries (March 21- April 19) Leo (July 23- August 22) Sagittarius (November 23- December 21) Someone who is different than what you’re used to. Regardless of their race, beliefs,...

You Don’t Need A Fitzgerald Grant, You Need A Jake Ballard

Fitzgerald Grant, “aka” Fitz is incredibly dashing. He sweeps America’s favorite Gladiator, Olivia Pope, off her feet. He’s sexy, he’s smart, he says all the right...

40 Of The Pettiest Reasons People Refused To Date Someone

Answers found on Ask Reddit 1. “I didn’t like the way she spelled her name.” — StattPadford 2. “She looked like my cousin, which I felt was weird.” — Pokyvinweasel 3. “I know...

A Series Of Crushes I Still Haven’t Gotten Over

He was my childhood sweetheart, my first crush, the first date I ever had. I’ve been told I idealize the people I have feelings for,...

Why You Keep Falling For Guys Who Hurt You, Based On Your Love Language

If you’re dating without knowledge of your love language, you’re really doing yourself a disservice. I’m obviously no expert in love languages, but I have at least...

Stay Single Until You Find Someone Who Chases You

Stay single until you find someone who chases you. Stay single until the person you find, you didn’t go out looking for because the best love in...

The 35 Most Confusing Things About Men, As Told By Women

Answers found on Ask Reddit 1. How they never seem to ask for more detail besides the absolutely necessary information. (Okay, we know where the party is,...

Will Smith Tried To Flirt With A Robot And Got Completely Shut Down

Will Smith has got some serious game when it comes to dating. Remember how smooth he was back in his Fresh Prince days? Well, he's still got...