You’re discovering that you aren’t as heartless as you like to pretend and actually care deeply about others.
You’re discovering that you are uncomfortable alone and need to get more accustomed to being lost in your own thoughts.
You’re discovering that you change your mind a lot because you have no idea what you really want and need to start focusing on your vision for the future.
You’re discovering that you put more effort into your relationships than into yourself because you don’t believe you deserve love — even from yourself (even though you definitely do).
You’re discovering that you can’t control everything and need to learn how to sit back and go with the flow.
You’re discovering that you aren’t able to save anyone else and need to focus on your own problems before worrying about everyone else’s.
You’re discovering that there’s a difference between high standards and unrealistic expectations, and you need to learn how to be more understanding of other people’s faults.
You’re discovering that pretending everything is fine will push away more people than admitting the truth.
You’re discovering that you aren’t as unsuccessful or unlovable as you’ve been telling yourself all these years.
You’re discovering that you aren’t always going to be the smartest person in the room, but that can be a good thing because it means you have a chance to learn.
You’re discovering that you can’t keep putting off your problems until tomorrow or they’ll snowball into something much worse.
You’re discovering that you care more about your career than your love life and are allowed to focus on your dreams first.