He explained that he had moved on — “that why I felt ready to date you.” But the new girlfriend countered with, “if thats true, you should have no problem deleting the post.” But, understandably, OP doesn’t want to delete the post. “She was still my wife, she died tragically, she deserves to be remembered for more than just being a wife, she was great person — and a nurse, too.”
When “Leather” asked what he should say to his girlfriend, reddit came through with the real talk he needed. “Bye,” was the top-rated suggestion of what to say. They also included a long list of the reasons this poor dude is most definitely not the jerk in this situation.