When it comes to the topic of “turning women on”, there are obvious sexual turn-ons, such as some well-executed foreplay, and then there are the turn-ons that happen outside of the bedroom.

In fact, as it turns out, if you want to get a woman’s heart pounding in pure lust and excitement, everyday activities like cooking and driving stick shift are your best bet.

Here are eight non-physical turn-ons women look for in a man:

It’s true! In a popular Reddit thread called “Women of Reddit, what do men do that’s attractive, that men don’t know about?”, hundreds of women went into detail about their number one nonsexual turn-ons.

So without further ado, here 14 pretty basic things you can do to make your girl want to rip clothes your clothes off.

1. When they cook

“I f**king LOVE watching my boyfriend cook. I can stand there and watch him all day long. He’s bustling around, chopping veggies and putting dry rub on meats and stirring things around in a pan, all confident and sure-like. “He thinks he’s just making dinner.

What he doesn’t know is that by the time the meal is ready, after watching him be so competent and unself-conscious and focused on making the food, I want to rip his clothes off and have my way with him first, and eat dinner later.” – projectedwinner

2. When they drive safely

“I find it hot when a guy drives calmly and safely. Too many times I’ve driven with guys that drive aggressively, speed, and try to show off; it is so comforting feeling like this guy that’s driving me actually gives a shit about me and my safety; I think it shows good character.” – insteadofessays