It’s difficult to watch someone go through a really hard time and help them recover, only to see them throw all their progress away and jump right back into their old situation. Unfortunately, this was the case for Selena Gomez’s mother.

Parents just want what’s best for their children, so it couldn’t have been easy finding out that Selena was back together with her seemingly toxic ex, Justin Beiber.

Selena and Justin have been on again and off again for years, and many of Selena’s family members blame Justin for the difficult personal problems Selena has faced recently. Her family has made no secret of the fact that they don’t like him and do not want him around her.

One family member said, “Justin is a vile human and will never be accepted by us. As long as she is even speaking to him in any way, it is not only disrespectful to everyone around her, it is disrespectful to herself.”

Selena’s family believe the way Justin treated her is the reason she went to rehab for depression. It doesn’t seem to matter that Justin is trying to turn himself around, allegedly consulting his pastor about decisions regarding his relationships.