What You Want Vs. What You Need In A Relationship Based On Your Enneagram...

Type 1: The Reformer What You Want: Someone to always say you’re right. Someone who is essentially perfect and what you expect in your head. Someone who...

What Gives Each Zodiac Sign Butterflies

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What Each Zodiac Sign Dreads About First Dates

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There’s A Difference Between Romantic And Attachment Love, And It Will Help You Figure...

There are many different types of love we experience in a lifetime. You know that the type of love you have for your parent isn’t the...

The Worst First Date To Take Each Zodiac Sign On

Aries Don’t take them to a coffee shop. It’s too bland, boring, and predictable for them. Taurus Don’t take them straight to your house. They expect more romance than...

This Is Me Saying Goodbye To Modern Dating

This is me saying goodbye to modern dating; this is me saying goodbye to that rush of adrenaline when someone decides to swipe right on my...

A (Totally Not Sarcastic) List Of Reasons Why You Should Definitely Date Me

Upon being asked for the hundredth time why I am single and if I will ever find someone who will help me grace this world with...

What Matters Most To You In Relationships, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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A Long List Of Scary Things About Men

I’m in LA to work on some projects for Creepy Catalog, so it’s only natural that when I felt like writing today I felt like tackling...

20 Unconventional Things That Are Actually Sexy AF

Answers found on Ask Reddit 1. “Genuine giggling.” 2. “A guy in a super long study/work session. Stubble, hair that’s been raked through, glasses, a pile of notes...

Got A Long List Of Ex-Lovers, They’ll Tell You I’m Insane (Bc Of The...

Many lifetimes ago I was sitting on a guy’s porch with him drinking and stargazing. We were having a thing and were in a phase where...

Date Someone Who Doesn’t Confuse You

Date someone who doesn’t confuse you. Someone who doesn’t send you mixed messages, someone who remains as keen on date six, as they were on date...

When I Look At You, I’m Home

It’s so strange. Upon meeting you, I unintentionally gave you a nickname that happened to be after the same character as the very first stuffed animal...

If You Know An INFJ, You Should Know How To Love Them

If you know anything about the Myers Briggs personality types, you know that INFJs are the rarest. INFJs are people whose personalities favor the personality attributes...

Are You Asking For Too Much Or Are You Just Asking The Wrong Person?

There’s a difference between someone who likes you and someone who appreciates you. There’s a difference between someone who thinks you’re convenient and someone who thinks...

When He’s Still Struggling To Move On

One day, I open the trunk in his hallway, searching for a lost book. Hair extensions in a familiar shade of platinum spill out of the...

20 People Reveal What Happened To The Marriage Pacts They Made When They Were...

Answers found on Ask Reddit 1. “I did. I dated my first girlfriend when we were about 17-19. Then she broke up with me but we had...

Maybe It’s Not Me | Thought Catalog

Maybe you’re afraid of commitment. The way someone runs from a scary monster or a man with an axe. But I’m a girl with a cozy...

Dating In 2019 | Thought Catalog

He says he tells his sister he’s dating someone. And I guess that’s what it is. And I’ve always been a firm believer in calling things...

This Is Who You’re Most Likely To Date, Based On Your Zodiac Element

Aries (March 21- April 19) Leo (July 23- August 22) Sagittarius (November 23- December 21) Someone who is different than what you’re used to. Regardless of their race, beliefs,...

You Don’t Need A Fitzgerald Grant, You Need A Jake Ballard

Fitzgerald Grant, “aka” Fitz is incredibly dashing. He sweeps America’s favorite Gladiator, Olivia Pope, off her feet. He’s sexy, he’s smart, he says all the right...

40 Of The Pettiest Reasons People Refused To Date Someone

Answers found on Ask Reddit 1. “I didn’t like the way she spelled her name.” — StattPadford 2. “She looked like my cousin, which I felt was weird.” — Pokyvinweasel 3. “I know...

50 People Confess What They’d Tell Their Partner If They Knew They Wouldn’t Get...

Answers found on Ask Reddit “I asked her out by accident and kinda just went with it, turned out very good though.” “I watch Korean dramas with you...

A Series Of Crushes I Still Haven’t Gotten Over

He was my childhood sweetheart, my first crush, the first date I ever had. I’ve been told I idealize the people I have feelings for,...

Why You Keep Falling For Guys Who Hurt You, Based On Your Love Language

If you’re dating without knowledge of your love language, you’re really doing yourself a disservice. I’m obviously no expert in love languages, but I have at least...

Stay Single Until You Find Someone Who Chases You

Stay single until you find someone who chases you. Stay single until the person you find, you didn’t go out looking for because the best love in...

The 35 Most Confusing Things About Men, As Told By Women

Answers found on Ask Reddit 1. How they never seem to ask for more detail besides the absolutely necessary information. (Okay, we know where the party is,...

Will Smith Tried To Flirt With A Robot And Got Completely Shut Down

Will Smith has got some serious game when it comes to dating. Remember how smooth he was back in his Fresh Prince days? Well, he's still got...