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The truth about wounded healers is that the person they most want to save is really just themselves. The truth about every healer is that they were,...

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Six Things To Remember When It’s Time To Actually Move On

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A Journey Through The Past Via My Facebook Friend Suggestions

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That June | Thought Catalog

That June I started Prozac and it made me really cranky. Exotic heat trapped my pores with dirt. I stood in the deep end of the...

The Things We Do In The Dark

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An Apology To My Husband Who Is Ready For A Family Even Though I’m...

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Here’s How The Mercury Retrograde In July Will Affect Each Zodiac Sign

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Here’s Everything You’ve Ever Needed To Know About Demonic Possession

Ever since The Exorcist, movies about demonic possession have depicted innocent people becoming possessed involuntarily. But how close is this to widely held beliefs about possession?...

How White Beauty Standards Are Hurting Women Of Color Everywhere

I live in New Hampshire now, but I’m originally from Hong Kong. Although there are numerous differences between these two places, such as in culture and...

This Is Me Saying Goodbye To Modern Dating

This is me saying goodbye to modern dating; this is me saying goodbye to that rush of adrenaline when someone decides to swipe right on my...

A (Totally Not Sarcastic) List Of Reasons Why You Should Definitely Date Me

Upon being asked for the hundredth time why I am single and if I will ever find someone who will help me grace this world with...

Beware Of The Day She Takes All Her Love Back

Beware of the day she gives up because that means she’s reached her boiling point. It means that she’s been holding on and trying for far...

As Soon As You Master Where You Are, It’s Time To Move Onto The...

You spend so much time working to find your footing in the phase of life you’re in. You spend so much time trying to master the...

This Is The Advice Girls In Their Twenties Need From Women In Their Forties

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31 One-Sentence Reminders For When You Are Feeling Like You’re Not Quite Enough

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Why I Said Goodbye To The French ‘Be Quiet And Mind Your Manners’ Method...

I’m a French girl, born and raised. I first came to the U.S. when I was 21 to be an au pair. The first thing I...

Read This If You Are Afraid Of Healing

Healing is ugly. Healing is painful. There’s no other way to put it. Healing means confronting a heartbreak, head on, and feeling the pain and the...

19 Things You Can Do In The Next Year That Can Change The Entire...

1. Gain financial clarity. Make a spreadsheet of your debts, and expenses. List them from least to greatest, and start paying them off in a snowball....

8 Signs That Look Like Love But Actually Scream Manipulation

In the beginning of every relationship, there’s a lot of communication; you want to know each other, find out about them, be connected while not together,...

Stop Rushing The Timing Of Your Life, You Do Not Have To Accomplish Everything...

It is important to set deadlines for your dreams. It’s not just important, it’s crucial. It’s the difference between ideas and goals, hopes and plans. You have to...

All The Things That Scare Me About Growing Up

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We Used To Kiss | Thought Catalog

(This poem is a dedication to the LGBTQ and growing community. In the 1980’s, many queer individuals lost their lives and loved ones due to the...

He’s Everything You’re Not And I’m Probably Going To Break His Heart

I sneak out of his bed around 3 and gather my clothes from the floor. I don’t bother picking up my heart; I think I’ll leave...

If You Aren’t Having Fun In Your 20s, You’re Doing Something Very, Very Right

As you’re growing up, you imagine your 20s as this mystical time of life, the “best years,” you’re told by those who have already passed through...

After Every Deception, You’ll Find The Truth

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In The Aftermath Of A Toxic Relationship

I have never loved anybody as much as I loved him. I thought I had experienced the depths of love and heartache. But with him, it was...

A Love Story Told Through The Texts I Never Sent

(*) Hey! (*) Want to study for this test together? (*) There’s a reason I got in your golf car and not his out there. I’ve been wondering...

Date Someone Who Doesn’t Confuse You

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I Was Never Crazy, You Were Just Shady As Fuck

I always believed I was a little irrational, maybe slightly paranoid, definitely very insecure. I knew, before I met you, that I had a habit of...

Maybe I’ll Love Myself Anyway

Today I looked at myself in the mirror, which usually wouldn’t be noteworthy. Because, well, I won’t lie, I look at myself in the mirror all...

This Is How Each Zodiac Sign Lets You Know They Want You

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If You Feel Like Love Is Always Escaping You, Read This

They say that when love is right, it will find you. That if it’s meant to be yours, it won’t run away. That real love that’s...

A Story About Your Ex Becoming Your Neighbor In Brooklyn

Not only the same city, but the same borough of New York: Williamsburg, Brooklyn. A few months ago, I told my boyfriend (who also happened to be...

Here’s Each Zodiac Sign’s June 2019 Horoscope

Beep, beep, beep! Heads up, star lovers. While the heavens are stopping at a rest station for the month, we’ll feel as if the energies here...

Why They Regret Leaving You, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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This Is What The Internet Is Telling You About Love Vs. What You Should...

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When I Look At You, I’m Home

It’s so strange. Upon meeting you, I unintentionally gave you a nickname that happened to be after the same character as the very first stuffed animal...

This Is How You Start To Let Go, Even If You Don’t Feel Like...

You cannot force yourself to let go, no matter how much you know you want to. You cannot force something out of your brain space, no matter...

Five Terribly Tragic Things Most People Forget About The JonBenét Ramsey Case

“If you tell someone a secret, it’s no longer a secret.” That chilling admission from a precocious child marks a haunting moment in Casting JonBenet, Netflix’s docu-drama...

A Short List Of Things I Lost When I Wasn’t Paying Attention

Any number of circumstances can make us lose sight of things which are important, or lose parts of ourselves without even realizing, not until it’s too...

Exactly What To Expect From The Full Moon In Scorpio, Based On Your Zodiac...

The full moon will enter Scorpio on May 18th, 2019. We are ready for the transformative phases that this full moon will bring. We cut ties...

The Laws Of (Constant) Motion

Our good friend, Sir Isaac Newton, defined three laws of motion in his lifetime, but for the sake of this article, I’ll list the two that...

This Is What ‘Game Of Thrones’ Teaches Us About Loyalty, Bravery, And Fighting For...

SPOILERS: Game of Thrones Season 8, Episode 5 Loyalty, bravery, and fighting for what you deserve are all admirable characteristics of a person and a leader. When...

I Invited Complete Strangers Over For Dinner And This Is What Happened

Back in November of 2018, I did a project called ’50 acts of kindness.’ From baking cookies for all my neighbors to handing out roses on...

This Is Why You’re Willing To Stay In The Wrong Relationship, Based On Your...

Aries: You like the chase and you don’t want to be bored. You’re known for a lot of things, Aries—your passion, stubbornness, and adventurous streak come to mind....

When You Lose The Friend You Thought Would Be In Your Life Forever

When you lose a friend, part of you dies a little. It hurts even more when the end is slow. It starts with them taking a...

Rethinking Fate And What’s Meant To Be

The other day I was really moved by a story a seventy year old woman told me when I asked her how she and her husband...

Maybe You’ll Never Be The Same After An Abusive Relationship And Maybe That’s Okay

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This Is What It Means To Glow Up, Because It’s Not About Proving The...

Your glow up might not be something others can see. It might not come across as a shift on the surface. In a world of revenge bodies...

You Can Fight With Everything You Have, But What Isn’t Right For You Will...

There is nothing that you can do to win someone, or something, that is not meant to be yours. You can fight with everything you have. You...

A Spotify Playlist For When Everything Feels Too Much

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19 Reassuring Things To Remind Yourself Every Day

You’ve made it to another day and maybe this day will be your best yet. Maybe this day will be your hardest yet. Or maybe it...

You’re The Specter Of A Heartache I Have No Right To Bear

i. mami asks who the flowers are from, flashes a smile foreign to me now, and i can hear her thoughts; she’s hoping i won’t end...

Some People Aren’t Meant To Last Forever (So Love Them While They’re Here)

When it comes to relationships and falling in love, we honestly put far too much pressure on ourselves. We think of the idea of falling in...

This Is Your 30 Day Bravery Guide: Challenge Yourself To Live Loudly, Boldly, And...

You can’t live the life you owe yourself without living it loudly, boldly, and without apology. We all have the power to do so, but we...

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9 Lessons I Learned This Year That Made Me Feel Better About Life

1. Life is just a series of the same experiences over and over. When I first moved to DC after college, I was always jealous of...

For Those Who Were Disappointed By The Battle Of Winterfell

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On Living With And Loving A Blackhole Of A Human

It wasn’t him I fell in love with, but the relief I felt when he left for work. The silence that arrived after he immediately locked...

When You’re The Girl Who Overthinks

When you’re the girl who overthinks, everything becomes more complex. You analyze every little detail — every text, every glance, every change in demeanor. Like a...

This Is How They’ll Heal Your Heart Based On Their Zodiac Sign

Aries: March 21st-April 19th: They will make you forget how boring and plain the world can be. Aries are known to be bold, excitable, and adventurous. They...

Give Yourself Time To Sit In Silence

When was the last time you sat down in the discomfort of your silence? When was the last time you fell in love with your spirit?...

A Reminder To Myself That This Is Not Love

i don’t love you. i know this is not love. love does not leave you feeling empty, shredded. fragmented in pieces this is sadness. heartache. over and...

When Anxiety Makes You Feel Like You Are In Danger Every Day Of Your...

It’s as if all the horrific worst-case scenarios flashing through your brain were actually happening. “Picture a place where you felt safe and secure.” I sat on the...

Ranking The Zodiac Signs From Who Would Die For Love Vs Who Would Rather...

1. Cancer As one of the most emotional and romantically-minded signs in the zodiac, it’s no surprise you’re at the top of this list. You truly love being...

Maybe Our Life Purpose Is To Live Out Every Moment

I believe that in every person’s life, one of the biggest internal battles waged in each of us is over the questions: What am I doing...

Prove To The Universe That You’re Ready To Go All In, And See How...

It is not enough just to ask. It is not enough just to visualize the outcome, to imagine your next level life, to know with complete clarity...

50 Important Things You Should Know In Order To Live A Good Life

1. You can still love yourself even when you are a work in progress. 2. Your mental health is more important than your work meeting, your school...

Read This When You Can’t Decide Between What Your Heart Wants And What Your...

From the time you’re little, everyone offers you advice on how to navigate your mind and heart. They’ll tell you to follow your gut, trust your...

Healing Yourself Is The Most Uncomfortable, Disruptive, Important Thing You Will Ever Do

Healing your mind is not the same thing as healing your body. When you’re wounded, you often go through a progressive,  linear repair. You get better,...

Forget That Thing You Heard About Love Having To Hurt Sometimes

honey, i get it. no one’s ever kissed you quite like that, and when he touches you, everything’s a little brighter, leaves aren’t just green, but about...

How Venus In Pisces Will Heal Your Love Life Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Venus is finally back in a sign she is happy in so eventually we will get the best expressions of this planet. Pisces is Exalted in...

Another Person Is Not A Salve To Your Wounds, So Stop Relying On Others...

You probably already know that another person can complete you. There is nobody that can fit into the god and self and love-sized gaps within you....

When He’s Still Struggling To Move On

One day, I open the trunk in his hallway, searching for a lost book. Hair extensions in a familiar shade of platinum spill out of the...

Every Useful Thing My Therapist Has Ever Told Me

1.    It’s okay to disappoint your parents. It’s not okay to disappoint yourself. 2.    Don’t believe everything you read in self-help books. They’re simply guidelines, not the map to...

These Are The 4 Loyalest Signs In The Zodiac

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Exactly Which Song From ‘When We All Fall Asleep, Where Do We Go?’ Best...

Aries: “wish you were gay” “to spare my pride, give your lack of interest an explanation/don’t say I’m not your type, just say I’m not your preferred...

I’ve Watched ‘I Love You’ Stretch Over The Atlantic

Tears reside in me like lost habits. I’m indulging in my wallowing and pastéis de nata. I know that if I allow one more teardrop to...

What It’s Like To Have A Miscarriage When No One Knows You’re Pregnant

“Tell me about your periods. Are they regular?” Unless she is trying to determine how pregnant I am, I do not know why that is relevant at...

The 3 Stages Of Falling Apart

You walked into the room and it was full of people, but I didn’t see the people. You shot me a cynical look and I already knew...

40 Little Things That Make Life And Love Totally Worth It

1. The sound of the door closing when your husband/wife/partner comes home from work. 2. Laundry from your family members. 3. Goodbye kisses. 4. Hello kisses. 5. Good morning kisses. 6....

This Is What I Want You To Remember

I am pretty sure that my name is always written all over your body like notes. A day won’t pass that I am not in your...

What Each Zodiac Wants (But Will Never Ask For) In A Relationship

Aries: Someone to stick with them even when they’re harsh/blunt. Aries are definitely a passionate and intense side to be around- they thoroughly enjoy living life and...

This Is What The Month Of April Has In Store For You Based On...

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Here Are The Top Three Potential Matches For You, Based On Your Myers-Briggs Personality...

When it comes to dating, we are constantly scouring and searching for ways to determine which people are compatible for us and which ones we should...

I Love My Body, But I Still Struggle With Wanting To Be Perfect

It’s not uncommon for my thoughts throughout the day to range from “you’re perfect just as you are” to “ugh, you’re not good enough.” If that...

If This Were My Book The Ending Would Be So Different

“Once he had told her something that she could not imagine: that amputees suffer pains, cramps, itches, in the leg that is no longer there. That...

A Reminder To Always Take Care Of Yourself

No one can argue the importance of self-care. It is everywhere-from Facebook memes to Buzzfeed shopping lists to TV shows chanting “treat yaself.” And, it IS...

With All Of Me, I Hope You Have Hope

With all of me, I hope you move forward with hope. I hope you find hope inside your heart, because it is there no matter what you...

You Need To Know You Deserve Me

After you left I suffocated myself in the candlelight I burned for us. I poured the wax on my heart in hopes it would remold into...

Forgive Yourself For Struggling With An Unclear Mind

Lately, more than half of the time, her mind is half functioning to its fullest degree. Her thoughts mostly consist of, “Why does my brain feel...

For Girls Who Use Spotify To Heal Heartaches In March

Recovering. – 35 songs. 2 hrs 20 min. I hadn’t been in Puerto Rico for more than 5 hours when I found out via Instagram you were...

7 Years: An Essay In The Fifth Person

A writing prompt was shared with me recently that every seven years all of the cells in our bodies shed and replace themselves, meaning that every...

This Is Grief | Thought Catalog

this is grief. staring. at the sea. out the window. at the words you mean to read. at the wall. at the back of your eyes as...

This Is Me Finally Learning To Unlove You

It’s been months since you left me. The first time, at least. Since then you’ve come in and out of my life like a revolving door...

These Are The 6 Zodiac Signs Who Are Most Likely To Ghost You

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I Hope You Don’t Just Happen To Anyone

Hey you, I hope you don’t just happen to anyone. I hope you happen to someone who appreciates your magic, someone who wants someone exactly like you...

Here’s To The Day You Start Living

I need you to promise me one thing. Actually, no. I need you to promise yourself one thing. Promise yourself that with every single cell that...

When He Makes You Feel Like You’re Just A Phase

How could you think you could touch fire and not get burned? I could ask myself the same. The night that we met, we agreed to turn the...

Ranking The Zodiac Signs By Who’s The Most Relaxed Partner To Who’s The Most...

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There And Back Again: Why I Gave Up Alcohol At 22

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How To Write A Personal Mission, Because Your Vision Will Become Your Reality

When it comes to building the life you want to live, most people try to design it backwards. Most people begin with what habits and routines they...

Life Will Be Good To You Soon, I Promise

One morning, one day very soon, you will wake up with that warm, cozy feeling deep down in the pit of your stomach; that nearly perfect,...

Ranking The Myers-Briggs Personality Types By Who’s The Most Relaxed Partner To Who’s The...

1. ISTP You rarely worry about anything anyway, this is no surprise. You take everything on a day-by-day basis, and spend most of your time just going...

You Will Find These Words When You Need To

Lean in closely to the words you are about to read. It is highly possible at least one sentence you need to see. Your heart will feel...

This Is For Every Woman Who Has Ever Doubted That She’s Able To Change...

I know that the reason why you feel stuck is because every time you try to step forward, something pushes you back. Every time you make...

You’re Not Going To Realize You’re Blossoming, But It’s Going To Happen Anyway

The truth is that you probably won’t recognize the moment you start to change yourself. You probably won’t know the day you meet someone who alters...

When You Are Being Your True Self Your Tribe, Your Money, And Your Love...

I know that you want to believe if you play the game right — if you make yourself more beautiful, if you exhaust every ounce of...

What My ‘New’ Zodiac Sign Made Me Realize About Astrology

With the start of every new month, one of the first things I do is check my horoscope for any foreshadowing on what to expect. While...

Here’s Exactly How Each Zodiac Sign Can Survive March’s Mercury Retrograde

Mercury goes retrograde on March 5th and will stay in retrograde until the 28th. We should all be used to this by now and the good...

Some Thoughts On The (Wonderful) Things I’ll Never Admit To Your Face

How you use my full name with such an infliction that I feel like some sort of celebrity or something. How you make me feel like...

Have Faith—There Is A Plan For All Of This

Have faith, there is a plan for all of this. You might feel the lowest you’ve ever felt. You may feel like the world is crashing down....

This Is The Horoscope You Need To Read For March, Based On Your Zodiac...

Aries: You are gearing up for your birthday season which is less than a month away. As you get ready to give Uranus the last hurrah,...

The Day You Stop Waiting For Them To Come Back Is The Day You...

They are not coming back. And the sooner you accept this, the quicker you will be able to gather the broken pieces of your heart and...

This Is How The Super Full Moon In Virgo Will Effect You, Based On...

The Full Moon in Virgo took place on February 19th, 2019. This Moon brought about much needed awareness into our lives that will impact us for...

I Don’t Have My Shit Together And I Hope I Never Will

We’re persuaded today that there are the three critical indigents to a destination of accomplishment, achievement, and fulfillment. They are, go to college, get a job,...

On Being Whoever You Want To Be

I keep buying long, flowy dresses because I want to be the person who wears long, flowy dresses. I don’t exactly have the kind of life...

Here’s How the March 2019 Mercury Retrograde Will Effect Your Zodiac Sign

Happy Astrological New Year, sky lovers! March is the time to get this party started, but prepare to add a beotch and a half to that guest...

This Is Who You’re Most Likely To Date, Based On Your Zodiac Element

Aries (March 21- April 19) Leo (July 23- August 22) Sagittarius (November 23- December 21) Someone who is different than what you’re used to. Regardless of their race, beliefs,...

You Don’t Need A Fitzgerald Grant, You Need A Jake Ballard

Fitzgerald Grant, “aka” Fitz is incredibly dashing. He sweeps America’s favorite Gladiator, Olivia Pope, off her feet. He’s sexy, he’s smart, he says all the right...

On Emptiness So Heavy It Hurts

There is no more fingernails left to bite and no one around to fuck. Stepping into the shower, I turn the dial to an unholy temperature. A normal...

These Are The 6 Signs Who Are Most Likely To Get Back Together With...

You love with your entire being, Cancer, and from the moment you meet someone you’re falling for you just can’t help but picture what your future...

Five Little Ways To Honor Your Dreams This Year

TAKE CARE OF YOUR MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH Above all, this is the most vital. We are arriving into the new year slowly, and there is still...

The Dos And Don’ts Of Being Ghosted

If you’ve never been ghosted before, lucky you. Ghosting is…how do I describe this…ghosting is…horrible! It’s not limited to this definition but basically, it’s when you’ve been dating...

These Are The 6 Zodiac Signs Who Fall In Love The Easiest

You’re in love with love and as such, falling in love just feels so natural to you. You see the best in people and tend to...

How To Explore New Orleans As A Millennial

Get there a few days early, alone. Wander down Frenchman Street at night and loiter on the sidewalk listening to jazz outside of Vaso, Blue Nile,...

Things I Wish Someone Told Me In High School

I spent six years learning to be the perfect, proper young woman I was told I would always grow up to become. The desire to conform...

There’s One Key Difference Between Relationships That Last And Ones That Don’t

In your lifetime, you’re going to be in many different relationships. There will be more than one occasion in which you think you’ve met your soulmate. They’ll...

This Is What It Means To Heal Completely, Because It’s Not About Going Back...

When something scares us but we never get over that fear, we become traumatized. When we’re traumatized, our lives start reflecting that. We begin restricting and isolating....

How You Act In The Face Of What You Can’t Control Determines Whether You’re...

The world wants you to think that there’s very little you can control. There’s a dark part of your psyche that is dependent on believing this,...

A Story About Processing That You’re Gone

Shattered In one moment, in one instance, everything I have ever know was completely gone. Sitting on the couch smiling and laughing, followed by a cataclysmic series...

8 Uncomfortable Things You Need To Realize If You’ve Been Exaggerating Your Role In...

1. Pleasing someone won’t make them accept you. You weren’t born to erase your identity for someone else’s sake of mind. No good ever comes from placing someone...

This Is The Year You Start Feeling Again, However Slowly It Happens

When something in your life hurts you, when you get your hopes dashed and dreams broken and plans don’t unfold the way you imagined, you don’t...

You Don’t Walk Away When You Run Out Of Love, You Walk When You...

The only parts of the past that still exist are the ones that we carry with us. The only parts that are still real are the...

10 Things People With Depression Do That May Seem Like ‘Just Being Sad And...

Depression is a monster. I was originally going to go into more detail with that statement, but I don’t feel that there needs to be anything...

Not A Casual Love Kind Of Girl

You’re not a casual love kind of girl. There’s nothing casual about love to you. Casual means you can just flip a switch on love and turn...

This Is How Each Zodiac Sign Can Be Better In Relationships

Though you fear commitment when you do make the decision to enter a relationship you tend to want to rush things. You should give the relationship...

I Did Not Want To Forget You, I Did Not Want To Forget Us

There is a certain ambiance in the air. I can’t pinpoint it exactly. I can’t articulate with words what I know it to be. There is...

This Is What To Channel From The New Moon In Aquarius Based On Your...

It feels like deja vu once again with the New Moon in the sign of Aquarius. Typical themes will involve focusing on the self and letting...

A Non-Comprehensive List of Things You Never Understood About Me

Self-hatred doesn’t have an outward sign. I am thin, white, female, neither too butch or too femme, and my illness can be hidden away under strategic...

Loving You Is A Privilege That Won’t Always Be Mine

I was spritzing on some Rose 31 by Le Labo, a gift my ex bought me, when it struck me—since a good scent always strikes some...

Dear You, Dear Somebody, Come Back

Dear You, This is a letter I will never send or let you read. So let me try this again. Dear Somebody, I need you to love me with...

The Beauty In The Chaos

It’s a weird feeling sitting alone in my empty house, teetering at the end of a memory. I watched the new tenants move in, looking around...

What Is Your White Privilege?

This is a question every white person needs to ask themselves. If you haven’t before, then now is the time. If you’ve been living under a rock,...

How To Fall Out Of Love With Someone Who Doesn’t Love You Back

Love never starts in remarkable ways. It’s the ability to make it last that renders its beauty. I met him and saw ordinariness. That is not the love stories...

An Open Letter To The Ones Who Did Not Choose Me

I always know something was left unsaid when the insomnia kicks in. Days in a row of waking up between 2 and 3AM. My mouth dry...

December With You, January Without You

My body fights sleep. Waking up with your name on my tongue. These dark days between the holidays spent stagnant and silent. Friends are out of...

What It Means To Be An Introvert With Depression

What’s wrong with you? Why aren’t you smiling more? Why aren’t you talking? Why aren’t you having fun? Is everything okay? Did something happen? Why can’t...

Love Is Not Always Convenient

I think we have this huge misconception about what love is what love is not. Current day we are so determined for everything in our lives...

White Hoods Are Making A Comeback In The Form Of Red Hats

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